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[講座]02/11擁抱心中的乖小孩 (李宗燁)
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簡介
《內容大綱》
每個人心中多少有個乖小孩，以為只要讓別人開心就會得到認同，於是就會努力配合他人的期望。
乖小孩不管是努力扮演好某種角色或是委屈自己迎合他人期望，往往就是為了討愛。有些人終其一生都在向父母討愛；有些人轉向配偶或職場討愛。然而，如果持續花力氣去鑽研如何讓他人更認同我、肯定我，終究難免要失落。
講座將分享如何誠實的面對自己，以及內心的匱乏與孤單。覺察乖小孩讓自己受苦的模式，擁抱心中的乖小孩，鬆綁自己身邊的人也跟著自由。
《講師簡介》
講師李宗燁，臺大心研所畢，現任：東吳學輔中心兼任輔導員、光寶文教合作講師、任林基金會團體帶領人。曾任：汐止社區大學講師、永生基督書院講師、空大兼任講師、社會大學講師、觀音線志工督導、銘傳學輔中心兼任輔導員。著有《走出乖小孩的受苦迷宮》、《生命史學》。
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李宗燁
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